Monday, June 10, 2013

Promiscuity

There are some people that are very sexual in nature. They may have sex a lot, they may flirt with people a lot, they may "mess around" a lot.

Who cares.

Let's say there's a girl in high school. She flirts with all the guys. She has sex all the time, sometimes with people that she doesn't know, sometimes with people she does know. Maybe she does it because she is insecure about herself and needs the physical expression of love to make her feel better. Maybe she does it because she wants to be cool, and think that doing that will get them where they want to be. Maybe she does it because she has daddy issues. Maybe she does is because she has other issues, maybe with her self esteem, maybe with self worth, maybe with something else. Maybe she does it because she just likes sex.

Who cares.

This is the life of guys and girls a like. For some reason girls get demonized, they are called sluts, whores, hoes and such. They get taken advantage of. Boys do as well, but girls are statistically more hurt because they are promiscuous.

Do what makes you happy. Don't judge what you don't understand. You don't know what other people are going through, you don't know what they are thinking or why they do what they do. Why should it matter what they do? As long as know one gets hurt, it shouldn't be a problem.

But if you are doing whatever you're doing because of some of the issues above, I would suggest seeing a therapist to get past some of those. Do what makes you happy. But make sure you're healthy as well.

Be safe. Be happy. You are loved.

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